October: National Book Month

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As you may know, October is National Book Month and everywhere bookworms are rejoicing!  Reading is one of my absolute favorite pastimes, not only because I get to immerse myself into another world to get away from real-world problems for a little while, but also because it’s relaxing (well, for the most part- I suppose it depends on what book I’m reading!).  In honor of National Book Month, I’d like to share with you what I’ve been reading so far this month.

Back in September, I started reading Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close.  I never finished it.  Never in my life have I stopped reading a book because I disliked it until now.  Okay, you caught me- with the exception of required novels during school, I have never stopped reading a book because I disliked it.  After a few weeks hiatus, I decided to give it another go.  I had only heard good things from people I know who have read it, so I really wanted to give it another chance, but I just couldn’t get past the strange first-person narrative with abnormally long paragraphs that held conversations within them rather than in separate paragraphs.

Maybe that’s because that’s what I’m used to when I read books- conversations being broken up into separate paragraphs for each person talking.  However, I realize that there is no “correct” way to write and that rules are meant to be broken when writing.  Even so, I placed the book back on my shelf last week for good.

I have been entranced with reading lately, however.  So late last week, after I set Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close aside, I decided to pick up an old book and visit some old friends.

Perhaps my desire to reread the Harry Potter series was due to the cool fall air (finally!) infiltrating the east coast.  Maybe it was because of the incessant previews for Freeform’s (many) Harry Potter weekends playing relentlessly on the TV.  Or, simply enough, perhaps it was because it has been several years since I’ve reread them in their entirety.  Regardless of the reason, I’m ecstatic about my decision to restart this journey.

I finished the Sorcerer’s Stone in just under six and a half hours, which must have been a personal record.  I believe it would have taken me less time if I didn’t have a full-time job and several other distractions (or responsibilities) that had to be completed prior to my reading binges.

Kyle came home from work Friday afternoon/early evening and could hardly believe I was on the last few pages of The Sorcerer’s Stone.  “How?!” he asked, astonished that I had somehow found the time to finish the book so quickly.  Without even asking, he went into our bedroom and grabbed The Chamber of Secrets from our bookshelf and laid it on the end table beside the couch where I was sitting at the time.  He just knew that I’d want to start the next book as soon as I was finished the first.  That, my friends, is true love.

Anyway, I started reading the Chamber of Secrets on Friday and I’m still currently reading it.  Not because I’m not interested in it or because it’s taking a long time to read- Kyle and I were just incredibly busy over the weekend so I had limited time to read.  But I’m truly enjoying every page of the series thus far and I’m loving it even more now than the first few times I read it.

Harry Potter holds a special place in my heart, and it remains high on my list of books that I love.  Rowling’s series is the first series that I can remember that truly inspired me to write.  Whether it was HP-related fan-fiction, online roleplaying (Neopets, anyone?) or even an original story of my own, I was writing almost every day when I was younger because I was so inspired.  I wanted to create a world as mystifying, extraordinary and magical (pun intended) as Rowling created.  It’s still my dream today.

I’ve realized over the past few weeks that maybe the reason I’m having difficulty writing anything of substance lately (creative writing, that is) is because I’ve been lacking inspiration.  I have been told that in times of severe writer’s block, I should revisit a favorite book’s world and find the reason why I wanted to write my own story in the first place.  Then, I should explore new worlds in the same genre that I’d like to write about and write down what makes them good and what makes me love them.  I’m currently on the first part of that with Harry Potter being my first stop.  I’m excited to see what happens while on this ride and what potential stories come out of it.

Now that you know what inspired me to begin writing and what I’m currently reading, I’d love to know what you’re currently reading (or rereading) and what’s on your list of books to read prior to year’s end.  Also, if there are any writers/authors out there, let me know what books truly captivated you and inspired you to write.  I’d love to discuss this with you and add to my list of books to read- and perhaps they’ll inspire me, too!

Until next time,

Emily

P.S.  If any of you are interested in my re-read of Harry Potter, check out the hashtag #EmilyrereadsHP on Twitter!

 

My Summer Reading List

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We’re almost through six months of 2017 already and I have been seriously slacking on reading!  For this summer, I’m setting a personal goal of reading five books.  Yes, only five because I don’t want to set the bar too high and get discouraged if it takes me longer to finish a book than normal.  With that being said, check out the five books listed below that are on my reading list.

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  1. The Graveyard Book- Neil Gaiman.  Okay, so I’m sort of giving myself a head start on this one.  I started this in late spring (April maybe?), but with wedding planning, it got pushed aside.  I picked it back up this week and haven’t been able to put it down since.  Neil Gaiman is incredible and I would highly recommend this book to whoever loves reading.  It’s intriguing and holds your attention the whole way through.  A big thank you to my sister, Sarah, who gave it to me as a Christmas present!  (I told you I was behind on my reading…)thumb
  2. Me Before You- Jojo Moyes.  Earlier this year, my husband and I sat down to watch this movie for a stay-in date night, and it ended with me bawling and him holding me.  The movie was beautifully heartbreaking.  But, with movies I’ve seen that has a novel counterpart, I’d have to honestly say the books are normally better (i.e. Harry Potter).  So with that, I definitely want to check out the book to see how it compares to the movie and if my theory is right in that the book will be better.715VLP6M-OL.jpg
  3. To Kill a Mockingbird- Harper Lee.  You’re probably thinking, “How has she gone through nearly 25 years of life without reading this classic?” and I can honestly say I’m thinking the same as you right now.  To Kill a Mockingbird is a classic, and I don’t think there’s any better time to read it than right now.  I know that it can be considered as a coming-of-age story and these stories tend to be my favorite genre to read.  So better late than never!41ywQaAwUoL._SX320_BO1,204,203,200_
  4. The Outsiders- S. E. Hinton.  Okay so you’re giving me that weird look again.  Yes, the one with the big, astonished eyes questioning my very existence.  This is another classic that I haven’t read and again, I can’t say why I haven’t read it yet.  Even my husband Kyle has read it, and he HATES reading (unless it involves a comic).  But that’s going to change this summer.  I’m excited to see what all the rave is about!15210355
  5. Gone Girl- Gillian Flynn.  And finally, Gone Girl.  This is also another book that I received for Christmas, and it’s another that has been sitting on my bookshelf collecting dust.  This is one story that I would prefer to read first, THEN see the movie.  I’ve heard great things about the movie and I can’t wait to find out what happens!

That’s enough from me.  What books are on your reading list for the summer?  Which books are you reading currently that you think I should check out (based on the short list above)?  Leave your responses in the comments below and I’ll get back to you!

5 Simple Ways to Unwind After a Stressful Day

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Stressful days are not unknown, nor are they uncommon, especially to young adults struggling to get to where they want to be in life.  The past few weeks have been particularly stressful for me due to wedding planning as well as a full workload at my day job.  However, I try not to let my stresses get the best of me.  Here are some of my favorite ways to unwind after a stressful day:

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  1. Sit out on your porch and get fresh air.  Or, if you don’t have a porch, sit under a tree or on a bench or wherever is most comfortable for you.  There’s something about sitting outside and breathing the fresh air that does wonders for me.  Listening to the birds chirp and the nature around tends to calm all of my worries/stresses.  Ironically, as I write this I’m currently sitting outside on my apartment balcony and I can easily tell you I’m feeling much better than I was earlier today.blond-1866951_1280
  2. Read a book.  I know not all of my followers probably read, but sometimes it’s just nice to get away from your life and live someone else’s.  By reading, I escape into another world and focus solely on those characters rather than what’s happening in my life.  I disregard all of my previous stresses of the day and instead attempt to solve the puzzle in the protagonist’s life.everyday-912097_1280
  3. Watch TV and drink wine.  If you’re not really into books that much, pick a new show on Netflix or find something on cable to watch, and kick your feet up and relax.  I normally watch one or two hours of TV per day and during that time I try not to work on anything else or even think about anything that’s left on my to-do list.  I normally always pair watching TV with a glass of wine because what’s the harm in that?  Wine helps me to relax, and it makes me tired so I fall asleep easier, which a better night’s sleep would alleviate the stress of being tired the next day.woman-2197947_1280
  4. Take a nap.  There is very little that I feel that sleeping doesn’t cure.  Today, for instance, I was so exhausted after my stressful work day that I didn’t feel like exercising or watching TV or cleaning or even writing a blog.  So I took a short 15 minute nap after I got home and I woke up more energized and less stressed.  I was able to finish my workout and now I’m sitting here typing this list up.runner-888016_1280
  5. Exercise.  Last but not least, I love to exercise to alleviate stress.  I know this isn’t for everyone, but exercise does amazing things for my stress levels.  I workout in the evenings for the sole purpose of having the ability to let out all of my frustrations and stresses during my workout.  Using my frustrations and stresses also fuels me and helps me to work out harder and put more oomph into things.  And afterwards I feel more relaxed and calm and am ready to settle in for the rest of the evening.

 

So, after reading this list, are there any things that you do that are the same/that are different than what I do to relax after a long day?  I would absolutely love to hear your thoughts.  Share in the comments below to discuss!